{"id":25,"date":"2020-05-13T18:46:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T18:46:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ontklemmer.nl\/?page_id=25"},"modified":"2026-10-23T13:35:46","modified_gmt":"2026-10-23T11:35:46","slug":"zit-je-klem","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/ontklemmer.nl\/","title":{"rendered":"Zit je klem?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stel je raakt klem: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Op je werk, in je relatie of misschien zelfs tussen twee vuren. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of je valt tussen wal en schip. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ongevraagde oordelen of adviezen van een coach of mediator kunnen je dan belasten met een beklemmend, verstikkend gevoel. Zelfs mooie open vragen hebben soms een tendentieuze ondertoon die ten koste gaat van een <strong>gelijkwaardige, respectvolle basis<\/strong>. Om maar te zwijgen over goedbedoelde, maar foute vragen zoals: &#8220;Waarom heb je het (niet) gedaan?&#8221;, &#8220;Welke blokkade houdt je tegen?&#8221; of &#8220;Is dit een patroon in je leven?&#8221;. Misschien vind je het ook vervelend als iemand op je reageert met het achterhaalde &#8220;Ik hoor je zeggen dat&#8230;&#8221;. Zodat je nog verder vast zit, met alle gevolgen van dien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daarom werk ik als &#8220;ontklemmer&#8221; die vrijheid laat en vrijheid geeft.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Zoals een ontklemmer wielklemmen los maakt<\/strong>, zo help ik mensen, teams en conflictpartijen die klem zitten, voor een dilemma staan of klemgepraat zijn. <strong>Zoals ontroestingsolie <\/strong>werkt als ontklemmer in techniek, bouw en industrie: indringend en herstellend, zelfs preventief en levensduurverlengend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wrijving verdwijnt dan als sneeuw voor de zon. 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